
Coaching Conversations
The first rule of communication is: know your audience.
Every person you coach is different, and your approach in coaching conversations should reflect that. As a coach, you may know what you want to say, but do you know how to say it depending on who’s listening?
And do you know how to listen so you can have a more productive coaching relationship?
A lot goes into connecting with people, but understanding their motives and values is a great place to start. If you can frame coaching around what matters to them (not just to you), you’ll have the foundation for great results. Here are some helpful things to look for to help your coaching resonate.
COACHING TIPS
If you’re coaching a person that values:
Putting others first
Take the time to ask how they feel about things.
Getting things done quickly
Keep a brisk pace. Always look ahead to what might be coming up next.
Making sure the right process is followed
Don’t mistake silence for disinterest; they are waiting to understand completely before offering input.
Encouraging others to succeed
Be enthusiastic, considerate of others, and focused on action.
Helping others become self-sufficient
Take time to consider the implications of decisions and how they will affect others.
Crafting winning strategies
Take time to clarify goals. Move quickly when plans are clear.
Bringing all team perspectives together
Don’t mistake their consideration of options as being indecisive; they don’t want to get locked into a set course of action.
SDI Assessments – Deepen Team Understanding
The Strength Deployment Inventory (SDI) is a powerful tool in our solutions for diversity, inclusion, and collaboration.
Through SDI, individuals gain insight into their own motivations and strengths – helping them understand themselves and find common ground with others.
The SDI results include:
- A self-guided walkthrough with personal videos and texts
- A downloadable, in-depth report
- Access to additional resources and insights on the SDI platform
Read more tips on how your team can improve collaboration and achieve its goals more effectively.
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